I took Olivia to get her sport’s physical this week. We waited an hour to see the Doctor. Apparently, waiting until the week before school to get your kids’ physicals is what all the cool moms are doing. The clinic was running a little (a lot) behind.
I didn’t mind. I liked talking to my girl. When we were sitting in the lobby, Olivia gave me some career advice. She said that I should open an office up right at our house and become a “Christian Organic Doctor who sells wellness”. I’m like, I have no idea what that is, but I am TOTALLY in, Olivia.
She said that when she’s older she’d be my partner. But, then she said she isn’t actually interested in any of that stuff, so she thinks she’d rather just watch my patient’s kids. I love it when your children figure your life out for you.
I’m sad again. I’m sad every single start of every single school year since I’ve had a school age child. Zeke pointed out that going back to school does not really change my schedule at all, so there’s no reason for me to be sad. I know that is true, but I’m sad any way.
Good byes have always made me sad. Every fall I know we are saying good bye to another piece of our kids’ childhood. It won’t be long before the last pieces are gone.
It’s going to be messy when all these kids go for real. I know it. I’ll be sad. I know one person for sure who will be sadder. The kids have this one BFF who plays with them all the time. This guy wants the kids to spend all their free time with him. The other day the kids were gone, and this guy told me he felt so sad and lonely. He didn’t know what to do with himself.
I said, “Scott. I think you need to find some friends your own age. These kids aren’t meant to live with us forever.”
He had a lonely look on his face. He said, “I know.”
This is the down side of marrying a guy who has no interest in rubbing elbows with the movers and the shakers at the country club. The guy who, if I’m remembering right, has never had a single “guys night out” in 22 years.
Guys like that take their kids growing up pretty hard.
I’ve got a few years to figure out how to find some kind of life for Scott and me by ourselves, without kids. I might get him into some pottery or paper mache classes. Perhaps, interpretive dance? If I keep this up, he for sure is going to ask the kids if he can live with them in their dorms.
Olivia has enjoyed her summer. She has sweet friends. They have been busy filming and editing videos for their Youtube channel. Is there anything at all about modern day child hood that looks like our own? I recognize none of it. I thought you were supposed to snap beans and wait for “Love Boat” reruns in the summer.
I was watching the girls’ videos and I thought they were funny and cute. I’m not one bit biased, either. I told the girls that the videos were awesome. I said most of them were so long, that really only their Mother’s would have it in them to stick with it until the end.
I told the girls that if they made a short little video, I would love to put it on my blog. Because, really? just how long can people listen to me blather? There’s gotta be something more interesting than that. Like, a middle school girl’s fashion video.
Happy Back to School to all the wonderful families out there. Blessings on you and your sweet children. I am rooting for you!